hello everyone and welcome to the get real good love show I am your host Charlie

Washburn sign space dating and relationship coach Matchmaker and founder of Av connections and today as you can

see whoops There Goes My sorry it's never a dull moment with Alexis she tells me what to do

all the time but anyway today we're going to start a series covering the topic of

is your criteria keeping you single so I actually created a few prompt slides to

go over with you and let's just let's just jump in feel free to comment if

you have any any comments so first I want to ask what do these male celebrities have in common Humphrey

Bogart Jonah Hill Al Pacino Sean Penn Michael J fox Nathan Lane Kevin Hart Tom Cruise Jason Statham

Bruce Lee Mark Wahlberg Matt Damon Daniel Radcliffe the list goes on and on Robert Downey

jr. what they have in common is that these men are short what is quote unquote short the

ones on the left side side particularly and maybe some still on the right I

are actually under 57 so let's just start there now having said that what do these

women who are absolutely gorgeous wealthy famous what do they have in common Gigi Hadid Taylor

Swift Chrissy Teigen Cameron Diaz Katie Holmes Nicole Kidman blah blah blah I mean the list goes on and on

these are all beautiful accomplished well see women they all date men who are shorter than them so

that is what we're going to talk about here today this idea that height is is a

criteria right and why you might want to consider dating short men so for starters let's let's talk about the

reality of the situation in the u.s. population there's about 14.5 percent of all men

that are six feet and over okay and you know I know a lot of women are looking for

men who are 6 feet tall and older the reality is is that if you use that as

a criteria given that there's only 14 and a half percent of the men a

lot of those men are already married some may not be may not have the other qualities that you're

looking for whether it's education level financial success etc etc wow you're really cutting out a huge piece of

the population but I want to give you some other facts that might change your

mind so facts about short men well did you know that short men have more are more

sexually active yes there is a study that shows that sure men are more sexually active and shorter smaller people

have is longevity so not only are they actually I was going to say reduce risk

of cardiovascular disease so they have less chances of getting these diseases right and these are

based on studies but also they live longer right so if you're with someone and you're looking to find a

spouse at this point in your life and maybe you're middle-aged Like Me Maybe in your 50s and you're hung

up on height you might be missing out out on a great guy who may not be as tall as

you would like but who's gonna live long enough to you know live out his life with

you and who might be a lot more sexually active than the taller guys and believe it or

not a lot of them shorter men are actually more confident and and actually have better postures

and things like that so they're very desirable and I will say that my husband is 59 and 3/4

if he had been 57 wouldn't hesitate for one second to date him I never had any Hang-Ups about height

but also there is a common thought that maybe height has something to do with penis size

so what the data shows is that short men can carry a big stick so that's something that's keeping you

from dating a shorter guy I urge you not to make that a reason Okay

so so these are just some facts about the benefits of dating a shorter guy and what I

want to suggest here is that if you are a single woman okay make sure that the criteria that

you're using for determining who makes a good partner for you is someone that is

going to make you feel a certain way that where you're going to have the type

of relationship that you want don't get so hung up on the height because as you can see there are

lots of beautiful women who are accomplished or famous who are wealthy who are okay

with dating men who are shorter than them and we've already determined and that if

it's a matter of thinking once you know the shoe size or their height has anything to do

with other things that is not the case so I will be bringing you to

you in the next few segments of the get real get love show some other criteria that you might

be using right now that are keeping you single and I encourage you to take

a look at the criteria of dating shorter men and maybe you might find find your ideal match that way

so if you happen to be single we're always looking for candidates to join us you can

join for free at a view connections.com /join Dash now and that will get you into our free database if

you are interested in meeting someone so that is all I have for you today please feel free

to reach out with any questions and I hope that you will consider this presentation as a

aha moment and maybe rethink your criteria and give those really wonderful short men a shot because you just might

be surprised all right see you next week