welcome everyone to the get real get love show I am your host Arlene Washburn and today we are

talking about continuous learning sometimes we have depending on you know the type of profession you have

for example doctors and nurses and people in the healthcare industry are wired to have continuing education and a lot

of other careers don't require this right certainly to be a dating coach I don't

necessarily have to continue to learn but I have a very rigorous learning schedule that I maintain

to stay up on the latest dating Trends on the latest science and research regarding

relationships and with that what I want to talk about today is that there is

a of learning that someone can do with regard to their dating and relationship goals and learning the techniques and

the strategies that are going to get you to that relationship goal that you have and unfortunately everyone's been

made to think that this is not a requirement that you can just you know focus

on your studies focus on your career and then all of a sudden find someone and get married

and it's that quick and that easy but the reality is that everything that is of importance in

your life you are required to spend some time researching and learning about it and love

and relationships and dating is no different and so it's really really important for people to

understand that there are avenues for you to get this information and I know sometimes people say well

you know I'm seeing a store you know I have a life coach this is not the

same thing okay these people are not experts in the dating and relationships space a lot of

them are single themselves having figured it out for themselves and unless they are concentrating in

that particular area of dating and relationships which there is a lot that goes into it they

may not have the right answers for you and that's why I always encourage people to seek out the information

that's going to help them achieve their relationship goals faster right and more efficiently without the dating fatigue and without

all the stress that can come when you're doing something that you're not sure how

to go about it and so we do have a membership site and I always love to

encourage people to take advantage of this because for years I have been a Matchmaker and dating

coach and my rates are not affordable by everyone and I wanted to create something that we can

offer to everyone where there was no issue about money just so people can get the information that they need

because it is part of my mission and so I developed the get real get love online

community where we have tons of many courses on video we have ebooks we have recommendations

and resources in quizzes and you name it and not only do we have a bunch of

stuff in their work continuing to add every week and it is Community Driven in other words we calibrate

the content that goes into this site based on the challenges and questions that are

submitted by our community and so for eight dollars a month that's right eight dollars a month

that's all it is there's no excuse for you to be struggling with your online dating struggling with

the process that you're following in terms of me people struggling to sustain a relationship because

I have tons of information in there and we're going to be adding a lot more

with other experts that are going to bring their specific expertise so if you are interested in something like this

I would love to encourage you to just try it out it's only eight dollars a month that's like

a total no-brainer just go to the get real get love website start membership right

away and guess what we do a monthly Q&A session with experts we just did our Q&A session

for September and it's on the Tuesday the last Tuesday of the month every month and

every month we're going to bring different experts this past session was amazing and there was

somebody in the group that is that had asked a question and and her question was that she's

been corresponding with someone for about three months and then he seems very reluctant to

go on video and so this is an area where we can help right because number one

if you're using online dating platforms you should be corresponding back and forth a few

times then jumping on a phone call then after the phone call having a video date and

then meeting in person and this all for things should be happening within tweet two weeks if you

go past two weeks then the data and the research shows that you're less likely to

be happy about meeting someone or content with who you meet or you're more likely to be to be

disappointed when you meet them okay that's one aspect the other aspect is the safety

aspect if you are corresponding with someone for three months and they are reluctant to get on a video

chat that should be a major red flag that could be someone who is a scammer

because scammers will Prime you into thinking that you're in a relationship with them and that you

know they start to love bomb you and tell you all kinds of things beautiful things

that you want to hear but every time that you try to schedule something to

meet or to do a video chat they find excuses after excuses and all they

want to do is correspond or talk on the phone and then finally they start to tell

you about some sob story about you know that they have to travel or that they're in

the military and they got stuck and they need money and that's what they do but

first they Prime you and so the more time you allowed to go buy the more likely you are

to start to have feelings for someone and all of the emotional and and chemical

cocktails that are going through your body are going to hijack your amygdala and you're going to end up

in a situation where you're being taken advantage of financially or you can put yourself at risk so avoid

that and follow my process of view text messages back and forth on the app if you feel comfortable move

to the phone after the phone have a video chat and then meet in person and this

is the type of education and knowledge that you should have so that you can be more successful cessful

you're not wasting your time and there's only one place you're going to get it and

that is from someone who actually knows what they're talking about who uses the science

and the research and I'm not the only one and you know that is willing to

offer you this information and I have that for you for eight dollars a month so go ahead

and join the get real good love show or I should say community and you'll be able to

submit your questions and be part of our next Q&A session which is that on the last Tuesday

of every month we sort of took us about a little break from them over

the summer because people are busy having fun in the sun but we are now back on track from

here to the end of the year and I look forward to seeing you there and that's what I have

for you today remember what I always say everyone deserves to love and be loved if you're

not having success with your process in your strategy find information outside of of yourself because sometimes

the mind that creates the problem can't solve the problem and I can help you I know I can so

join us in the get real get love community and I will see you on the inside

bye for now

welcome everyone to the get real get love show I am your host Arlene Washburn and today we are

talking about continuous learning sometimes we have depending on you know the type of profession you have

for example doctors and nurses and people in the healthcare industry are wired to have continuing education and a lot

of other careers don't require this right certainly to be a dating coach I don't

necessarily have to continue to learn but I have a very rigorous learning schedule that I maintain

to stay up on the latest dating Trends on the latest science and research regarding

relationships and with that what I want to talk about today is that there is

a of learning that someone can do with regard to their dating and relationship goals and learning the techniques and

the strategies that are going to get you to that relationship goal that you have and unfortunately everyone's been

made to think that this is not a requirement that you can just you know focus

on your studies focus on your career and then all of a sudden find someone and get married

and it's that quick and that easy but the reality is that everything that is of importance in

your life you are required to spend some time researching and learning about it and love

and relationships and dating is no different and so it's really really important for people to

understand that there are avenues for you to get this information and I know sometimes people say well

you know I'm seeing a store you know I have a life coach this is not the

same thing okay these people are not experts in the dating and relationships space a lot of

them are single themselves having figured it out for themselves and unless they are concentrating in

that particular area of dating and relationships which there is a lot that goes into it they

may not have the right answers for you and that's why I always encourage people to seek out the information

that's going to help them achieve their relationship goals faster right and more efficiently without the dating fatigue and without

all the stress that can come when you're doing something that you're not sure how

to go about it and so we do have a membership site and I always love to

encourage people to take advantage of this because for years I have been a Matchmaker and dating

coach and my rates are not affordable by everyone and I wanted to create something that we can

offer to everyone where there was no issue about money just so people can get the information that they need

because it is part of my mission and so I developed the get real get love online

community where we have tons of many courses on video we have ebooks we have recommendations

and resources in quizzes and you name it and not only do we have a bunch of

stuff in their work continuing to add every week and it is Community Driven in other words we calibrate

the content that goes into this site based on the challenges and questions that are

submitted by our community and so for eight dollars a month that's right eight dollars a month

that's all it is there's no excuse for you to be struggling with your online dating struggling with

the process that you're following in terms of me people struggling to sustain a relationship because

I have tons of information in there and we're going to be adding a lot more

with other experts that are going to bring their specific expertise so if you are interested in something like this

I would love to encourage you to just try it out it's only eight dollars a month that's like

a total no-brainer just go to the get real get love website start membership right

away and guess what we do a monthly Q&A session with experts we just did our Q&A session

for September and it's on the Tuesday the last Tuesday of the month every month and

every month we're going to bring different experts this past session was amazing and there was

somebody in the group that is that had asked a question and and her question was that she's

been corresponding with someone for about three months and then he seems very reluctant to

go on video and so this is an area where we can help right because number one

if you're using online dating platforms you should be corresponding back and forth a few

times then jumping on a phone call then after the phone call having a video date and

then meeting in person and this all for things should be happening within tweet two weeks if you

go past two weeks then the data and the research shows that you're less likely to

be happy about meeting someone or content with who you meet or you're more likely to be to be

disappointed when you meet them okay that's one aspect the other aspect is the safety

aspect if you are corresponding with someone for three months and they are reluctant to get on a video

chat that should be a major red flag that could be someone who is a scammer

because scammers will Prime you into thinking that you're in a relationship with them and that you

know they start to love bomb you and tell you all kinds of things beautiful things

that you want to hear but every time that you try to schedule something to

meet or to do a video chat they find excuses after excuses and all they

want to do is correspond or talk on the phone and then finally they start to tell

you about some sob story about you know that they have to travel or that they're in

the military and they got stuck and they need money and that's what they do but

first they Prime you and so the more time you allowed to go buy the more likely you are

to start to have feelings for someone and all of the emotional and and chemical

cocktails that are going through your body are going to hijack your amygdala and you're going to end up

in a situation where you're being taken advantage of financially or you can put yourself at risk so avoid

that and follow my process of view text messages back and forth on the app if you feel comfortable move

to the phone after the phone have a video chat and then meet in person and this

is the type of education and knowledge that you should have so that you can be more successful cessful

you're not wasting your time and there's only one place you're going to get it and

that is from someone who actually knows what they're talking about who uses the science

and the research and I'm not the only one and you know that is willing to

offer you this information and I have that for you for eight dollars a month so go ahead

and join the get real good love show or I should say community and you'll be able to

submit your questions and be part of our next Q&A session which is that on the last Tuesday

of every month we sort of took us about a little break from them over

the summer because people are busy having fun in the sun but we are now back on track from

here to the end of the year and I look forward to seeing you there and that's what I have

for you today remember what I always say everyone deserves to love and be loved if you're

not having success with your process in your strategy find information outside of of yourself because sometimes

the mind that creates the problem can't solve the problem and I can help you I know I can so

join us in the get real get love community and I will see you on the inside

bye for now